Letting Go

Letting go sounds like a simple thing to do, but the fact of the matter it’s not that simple. We hold on to relationships that are not healthy, we stay at jobs we’re unfulfilled, we hold on to past hurts, we just hold on. Sometimes it has nothing to do with what were unhappy with or at, it’s just being unhappy with what we have accepted, with the fear of change, with the hope that it will change without our consent our own doing. Without our consent things that make us unhappy will continue. We have to find out who we are, what makes us happy, what can we do to make us happy, before signing the consent form to letting other’s share in our happiness, as well as compliment it. Just like wearing makeup, we’re already beautiful beforehand, makeup just enhances our beauty. We have to let go of the things that knocks us down, suck the life out of us, changes our mood, even when we don’t want to. We have to let go the fear of change, for change is good. We have to let go the feeling of failure, for it’s the best feeling in the world. When you experience the feeling of letting go, and notice that you’re still standing and stronger then before, continue to let go with all you got to give to yourself. Remember it may seem like a lost, but it’s only a gain. When you start worrying and feel like you can’t let go, breathe deeply, exhale, and tell yourself you got this,  this is your life, you make decisions for you and only you. Nobody can make you stay anywhere, anyplace. If you have to scream or shout, do it. Just vent to someone you trust, write your feelings down. Just focus on you, put you first. And just Let Go… ~DTRC

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