Letting Go

Letting go sounds like a simple thing to do, but the fact of the matter it’s not that simple. We hold on to relationships that are not healthy, we stay at jobs we’re unfulfilled, we hold on to past hurts, we just hold on. Sometimes it has nothing to do with what were unhappy with or at, it’s just being unhappy with what we have accepted, with the fear of change, with the hope that it will change without our consent our own doing. Without our consent things that make us unhappy will continue. We have to find out who we are, what makes us happy, what can we do to make us happy, before signing the consent form to letting other’s share in our happiness, as well as compliment it. Just like wearing makeup, we’re already beautiful beforehand, makeup just enhances our beauty. We have to let go of the things that knocks us down, suck the life out of us, changes our mood, even when we don’t want to. We have to let go the fear of change, for change is good. We have to let go the feeling of failure, for it’s the best feeling in the world. When you experience the feeling of letting go, and notice that you’re still standing and stronger then before, continue to let go with all you got to give to yourself. Remember it may seem like a lost, but it’s only a gain. When you start worrying and feel like you can’t let go, breathe deeply, exhale, and tell yourself you got this,  this is your life, you make decisions for you and only you. Nobody can make you stay anywhere, anyplace. If you have to scream or shout, do it. Just vent to someone you trust, write your feelings down. Just focus on you, put you first. And just Let Go… ~DTRC

Love Yourself

We often hear people say… Love yourself first. Do we even know what that actually means, to love yourself? Does it mean put yourself first without the possibility of being selfish toward others? With or without knowledge, or being aware. I can only speak on my behalf or try to. I wasn’t aware of putting others before me besides my children. I found out the hard way when ailments crept in my life with medication attached. Now I’m learning to say no. But now I know that loving yourself means to eat healthy as possible, exercise mentally, spiritually, physically and financially. Also to give back without expecting anything in return. Just know your limit in doing for others. We have to live not just exist. We have to make ourselves happy with the sense of feeling free to do whatever we want without societies consent. We have to make it right for Us. I was told last year, by a family member is that, I don’t have the things I really want because I don’t ask. I had to let that simmer for a minute, and the next day I thought about what was said to me, and realize it was true. I was so use to doing/handling things on my own, that I didn’t know what it felt like to be helped or just given a hand. What’s so ironic is I am always offering a hand Or two. I’ll give before I take. What a lesson learned, still learning. What I know for sure is we must Love Ourselves… Love Yourself…. ~ DTRC

LIFE IS CALLED THE UNEXPECTED. WHERE YOU LAND, YOU’LL NEVER KNOW.

LIFE MOVES VERY FAST. IT RUSHES FROM HEAVEN TO HELL IN A MATTER OF SECONDS. ~ Paulo Coelho

WE PLAN AND PLAN AND PLAN… THE MOST HIGH MAKES THE FINAL ARRANGEMENTS.

ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN IN A MATTER OF SECONDS, WITHOUT OUR CONSENT.

I CONSIDER MYSELF A SPIRITUAL BEING, BUT THERE’S A SPIRITUAL BEING HIGHER THAN MYSELF. 

WE HAVE TO ENJOY LIFE THE BEST WAY POSSIBLE.

JUST REMEMBER WE ALL ENDURE THE SAME UN- EXPECTANCIES, JUST NOT AT THE SAME TIME.~ DTRC

 

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Be Blessed Where You Stand

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Be Blessed Where You Stand…

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No matter what obstacles, trials and tribulations meet us in the face of adversity, it was placed on purpose. We have to endure such hurt, pain, anger, disappointments, loss, heartbreaks and sufferings, to be given the chance to feel what it’s like to be strong, where our strength lies, enough to handle what obstacles come our way. We have to know what it’s like to struggle, fall and to get back up. If we don’t go through, how are we to get through. As time goes and comes back around, we learn to appreciate with understanding, that our struggle is our blessing. Be blessed where you stand. ~ DTRC

 

LIFE

LIFE is like a food taster, you taste it, chew it, either swallow it, spit it out, and taste something else. ~ DTRC

LIFE is like a pair of shoes you adore them from the window or a store display, you try them on, it fits like a glove, looks amazingly on your feet, you purchase them. Take them home gift boxed and all. You wear them a few times, until you can no more. ~ DTRC